F.E.A.R. from a Different Perspective. Faith-Establishes-Absolute-Reality – JJ
Still pondering on what could have been better in 2010? How About 2009? Let’s be honest with how the mind works. You’re probably pondering on what could have been better your whole life. To be honest the past is none of our business. I mean unless you’ve made some financial investments within Wall Street and are banking in your dollars today. Then the past became a successful business for you today. Hence the word Today. Also meaning Now, Present or Current. I felt the calling to touch up on some areas of FEAR, that withhold the future progress of people’s success in all areas of life. Many can relate to specific fears such failure, fear of loneliness, fear of intimacy, fear of risk, fear of pain, fear of abandonment, fear of rejection, fear of looking/sounding uneducated, fear of what someone might think, fear of punishment, fear of poverty, fear of exploitation, fear of missing the big chance. That’s just a minute layout of common fears ones go through. Having these fears tends to make one fear the past and most of all, fear the future. Ask yourself how can you even question the past or future, when neither are present. I’ve studied great non fictional novelists such as Toole, Dyer, E. Fox and Carl Jung in whom have taught me peace of mind. There’s also these gentlemen Bill and Bob who seem to understand fear, but let’s face it not everyone is suffering from what those individuals and others do. I can say that most the world sufferers from Fear. Have you ever woken in the morning before your day starts and instantly your mind focuses on all the bad that has or can happen. Why? Your day hasn’t even begun and the mind wants the skull to feel as if it’s roasting in a pressure cooker. I’ve found through the years of coping with Fear, that a gratitude list of good things you are and posses are great methods in diminishing fears. It’s the little things in life. Another step is to focus on the present. I have a saying that the past is pain, the future is fear and the present is your best friend. What you do in the present moment diminishes the past and creates your future. Like Wayne Dyer once said “ The current moment is your best friend, That’s why it’s called the present”. I wanted to share my analogy and breakdown of the word fear. It’s called- Faith-Establishes-Absolute-Reality-. I’m not asking any reader to become religious or lose sight of certain society protocol. Just Saying “keep an open mind with in the moment Faith”. Here’s the simple 4 steps to this word FEAR. 1) FAITH – Have the confident belief in yourself that you are ok. That you know within your mind, everything is happening accordingly based on your positive actions. You have trust in yourself to do what’s right, so what’s right happens to you. You shall become your own Divine authority and feel at peace when practicing this mindset. 2) Establish. If your surrounding of people, workplace or situations are causing fear, then live in constant awareness of Establishment. Create a more comfortable setting within your home, work environment and become friends with ones who feel like a warm fireplace. What you establish in your surroundings is what you become. 3) Absolute. Most people may say "sure bring on the Absolute when the fear comes knocking". Vodka never resolved any long term Fear since I’ve been around, so let’s scratch that idea. When I speak on Absolute, I mean become Absolute from within. I have another in my life that I used to tell “ It’s not perfect and I would like it to be.” They would tell me “ For the Fact it’s not perfect, is the reason its ooh so Perfect”. What a simple concept. Have the established attitude of not minding what happens. And Finally 4) Reality. Understand your existence. That you are your reality. That you have purpose. Write down every great quality you have ever had, done, or positive situation you have lived through and make those talents a reality. I’ve recently felt such a strong connection of less fear from many as 2011 kicks off and hope my relative ways make sense to you. Let yourself be amazing. A simple pat on your own back daily doesn’t hurt and is well deserved. Remember-
F.E.A.R. from a Different Perspective.
Faith-Establishes-Absolute-Reality – JJ
Fear one thing in this life, and that thing is NOTHING- JJ Much success my friends….